Finally what i had not expected..a feedback in two months time on my son's performance in school.

So i went early to pick him up because he was not well and one of the aunties wanted to talk to me in the office room. Arav was not allowed in the room with me since they do not give feedback with the child present in the same room. Later Arav's class aunty also joined in.

They had some nice things to say and some not so nice things to say. I had to leave the mother bear sensitivities behind to listen to the latter part.

After that i decided to set some rules about the house which he could identify in school as well. It did not work immediately but i am hoping that it would help.